My stepson finished 3rd out of 700 soldiers in the entire bootcamp in physical training. He values the structure and rigor of the career he's chosen, and it meets a need to take care of his family. He's excited about his next adventure and wonders if he should have chosen a more challenging role in the Army that would have presented him with more arduous basic training. I tell him I think he's proven himself, but I chuckle, too, because I understand that tendency to always be wondering what more I could do. He's motivated by a purpose he has defined for himself.
Though we're following very different paths, I'm incredibly proud of him and the focus and determination he has been able to channel. Because he's chosen work that meets his needs and is aligned with his values, he is propelled forward with an exciting energy. He's taken a leap into his future, and at 19 years old, he really still has his whole life ahead of him. The truth is, however, that we all have our whole lives ahead of us--no matter our age.
If you stop right where you are and recognize that you have your whole life ahead of you, what purpose could you find that meets your needs and is aligned with your values? What would make your life incredibly worth living?